Speaking as a man, let me assure you, being a guy it’s not always about having to be macho all the time. Now and again we do enjoy it when that special lady in our lives goes the extra mile and does something for us that is plain Jane. Besides, contrary to the ladies, we aren’t really that high maintenance.
Could it be a question of maturity? Or age? I do not believe that age plays a factor in whether a man will know how to romance his other half, and be affectionate. There are plenty of older men who still lacks the ability and knowledge on what Kissjav is, and how to be affectionate to his other half. I do however, believe that maturity plays a major role in what a man knows as being romantic and affectionate. A mature man will understand the importance of romance in his relationship, and take the extra step to romance his partner while also finding new ways to keep the fire burning in the relationship.
Due to the Sheep being in affinity with the Rabbit, this year is also favorable for romance. Singles should actively socialize and meet more people so as to increase your chances of meeting the right one.
Have a sense of humor. The best made plans sometimes go awry. Did you burn the dinner? Laugh it off and call for takeout. Do you have a flat tire? Call Triple-A and cuddle in the car. Are you broke? Spaghetti and salad at your place has all sorts of possibilities. Make sure to rent a good romantic movie and have a few scented candles at hand.
As a rule of thumb, showing your romantic side is mostly effective when your partner does not expect it. You must be able to surprise her. It means that you do not wait for Valentine’s Day or for her anniversary to show you romantic side. Express it at any given moment. Spontaneity is key.
Sometimes love is mistaken for lust or desire and you get married thinking it’s love. After meeting someone and getting married in a few months is not enough time to know if you’re truly in love. Do some of the things you did after you met and make Friday a date night.
The most important thing is to take time for each other every day regardless of your busy schedule. Keeping romance in a relationship takes effort but is well worth the rewards. Just by doing small things will rekindle your romance and the feelings you had so long ago will come alive and you’ll have a great romantic marriage.